Hello, I am married for Seven years now.I do not have kids.I have been trying all possible artificial methods also for having kid..but everything is turning into failure. There is no physical problem in me or my huband,but still we are unable to conceive.. Please let me know any vratham which is specifically for having children I am willing to go to any lenght and do fastings all month if required. please help me out.Any particular temple in South India or any Puja which i can perform for having children.
Hello Vinnu, we had the same problem. Our astrologer suggested us to do the following 3 pujas: (1) For 16 Mondays - Perform Abhishekam for Lord Siva in any nearby temple.You can even pay money in advance and the temple pujaris will perform it and u can collect prasadam later. Pls chant Om Namah Sivaya 1116 times and maybe some other slokas of lord Siva on monday. Dont eat any onion, garlic on this day. Keep 1-time fast (1-time fast is skipping bfast, having lunch with rice etc and skipping dinner. You may have fruits and milk for bfast and dinner or non-rice based tiffins).
THE NEXT IS THE MOST IMP PUJA FOR COUPLES WILLING TO CONCEIVE: (2) On every Tuesday until you conceive you are advised to perform Abhishekam/puja to Lord Subrahmanya(son of Lord Siva), you need to chant Subrahmanya-ashtakam 11 times that day. Maintain 1-time fast which is explained in previous point on this day as well. In teh evening, please visit a nearby Subrahmanya temple and pray to him. If you dont have a temple nearby, buy a photo of HIS and keep it in ur puja room at home. Please make it a point to go to Rameswaram and do Naga-prathishta puja there. One more thing is - whatever puja i am telling, both you and your husband should perform and not just you.
(3) Do a Santhoshi mata vratham or Vaibhav Lakshmi vratham (depending on your willpower as Santhoshi ma vrath is more tedious) praying to conceive soon.. This should be done ideally for 16-weeks. You may be knowing the procedure to do a santhoshi mata vratham. Else see http://www.s-a-i.info/assoc_change/…
PLEASE KEEP IN MIND THAT FIRST 2 PUJAS SHOULD BE DONE BY BOTH YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND AND THIRD ONE CAN BE DONE BY YOU. BUT IT IS GOOD IF HE ALSO PARTICIPATES IN LAKSHMI PUJA. Chant Ashtalakshmi sthothram daily and pray to Santhana lakshmi.
sarpa dosha nivarana poojas can be performed. 1. praying to sarpa/nagar in temples.they are simple. 2. doing aswatha puja for 45 days. that is reciting the general mantras assigned by the astrologer and doing 108 pradhakshinas for 45days.During the 45 days (Mandala) as daily routine take 1 time food and the other light tiffin ( avoid masalas-garlic etc and non-veg)-
Since it is a 45 days pooja, start from the 5th day of new monthly cycle and continue with the second month giving due intervals for the monthly cycle. Let this period be a rest period.(Avoid sex)your husband also co-operating/observing vrata. you can take any medicines suggested by doctors. no restrictions. After completion puja do concluding puja to Kuladevatha.do dharma.
Dear Vinnu, temples, Garbharakshambika temple in Tanjore district is good. Another temple is Uttamar Koil in Tiruchi district.
Homams, Santana gopala homam performance is good.
Reciting whole of Sundara Kaandam 7 times is good for getting pregnant. You can do yourself.
Chant Lalitha Sahasranamam meditate on Krishna and offer butter. This good for child if done regular. Naarayaneeyam chant also good.
If nothing works, You can try to get the Garbha Kavacham ritual done by Pandit DAKSHINAMOORTHIji who is based in Chennai. It is most powerful chant for this. It usually gives good result; but if this also fails, nothing else will work. The ultimate is Garbha kavacham chant (also called Vamsa Vriddhikaram vamsa kavacham). To my knowledge, only Panditji is only person who does this authentically.
First of all I wish to inform you that there is lot of reason behind of non conceiving. You identify the problem first. Fasting and Vratham alone cannot solve your problem. It will only weaken your body condition. I am not against any puja . after all everybody is God’s child. So you carry on your puja and simultaneously follow the procedure which I have mentioned below
1) You people not had a intercourse on your Ovulation pried. 2) If any one will have problem in fertilize.
If you want to find your Ovulation pried you have to follow your Menstrual Cycle
1. Proliferative Phase: This Phase begins on the 6th day after the beginning of menstruation and ends with Ovulation (Release of Ovum from Ovary) on the 14th day in 28 day cycle.
2. Secretory Phase :This phase is from 15th to 27th day of the cycle. This phase is for preparation of a suitable site for the embedding of the fertilized ovum. If fertilization dose not occur the preparations are no longer necessary and are removed in the next phase which completes the cycle.
Ovulation occurs usually about 14th to 16th day of Menstrual Cycle and it is difficult to determine the exact time of ovulation. You can find the ovulation in a simple way by checking your body temperature. You have to check your body temperature in the morning on waking before getting up from bed using thermometer. You have to maintain a temperature chart. When ovulation occurs you can find a rise of temperature by about 0.3 to 0.5 oC (usually the normal temperature is 98.4 oC) The ovum survives for about three days. The sperm survives in the female genital tract has the capacity to fertilize the ovum only for 24 to 48 hrs. Hence the actual fertile period is only 3 day. So you can find you Ovulation period and try to have intercourse on that particular day’s If you have irregular periods also this temperature method is very much useful. If you have regular periods then you can have intercourse in around from 13th day to 17th day of your menstrual cycle.
So try to have intercourse on that particular day’s mentioned above and try this chance also. But don’t forget your puja proceedings too but not like taking fastings etc.,
Post your query along with you and your husbands birth details like date of birth, place of birth, time of birth and marriage date, time and place of marriage. So that our Astrologers can verify and suggest suitable remidies.
Mean time chant (both of you) Sri Santhana Gopala Mantra given below daily at least 108 times.
Om Devaki Sudha Govinda Vasudeva Jagath Pathe Dehimey Thanayam Krishna Thwamaham Saranam Kadhahaa Deva Deva Jagannatha Gothra Vridhi Karap Prabho Dehimey Thanayam Sheegram Ayushmandham Yashashreenam !
Hi Vinu, I need clarifications on few things 1. Which is your Home deity and are you doing all the rituals for the home deity regularly. Is your family is doing pithur karmas(remembering your Ancestors) like devasams,Tharpanams regularly??
If these two are done regularly Then I suggest from the personal experience that you should Recite "LALITHA TRISATHI" .This is 300 namavalis of Srimad lalitha devi.It is alos known as Sarva poorthikari (which fullfills everything).The book is published by Sri Ramakrishna Mission available in all languages and it is also available as Annexure to Lalitha Sahasranamam.This Hymns are available in all leading bookshops. The naivedyam should be Payasam prepared with Jaggery or Sarkarai Pongal(Sweet rice made of Jaggery).This will definitely give you good effects as this is considered to be the most powerfull worship for worries as lalitha will listen to your needs like your mother and grants it.Please feel free for any clarifications
I'm so sorry to hear about your problem. My personal opinion is that it would be helpful for you to furnish your and your husband's complete birth details to the Astrology category as I have often seen a couple's charts will give information about fertility problems even when not indicated by medicine. These generally can't be solved by artificial methods, but sometimes can be remedied with time. If you want to become pregnant, it is better not to complete vratham as physical strength should be maintained. You can also do a pooja at the Garbharakshambika temple.
I would like to analyse your situation Astrologically. I come across such situations frequently, when all medical analysis show perfect situation, but the success rate is low. I suggest a astrological analysis and then lifestyle analysis to see where the problem could be. Infact, you are the second person who I am requesting for astrological analysis today. Please provide date, time and place of birth details for you and your husband.
You can keep all the medical treatements and examinations going on without fail.In addition please check both of your horoscopes.Also visit kukke subramanya in karnataka and perform ashlesha bali,nagaprthishta,sarpa samskara and go for prarthana.You can also seek blessings of sai baba.In the mean time try santhana gopala krishna pooja and santhana lakshmi pooja. Try for artificial insemination also.
You can do puja at Karpagarakshambigai temple in Thirukarukavoor near Kumbakonam in Thanjavur dist. Eventhough it is for safeguarding the foetus, to conceive also, you can pray and ghee is the prasad they will offer.
Have you taken a medical proffessionals advise? Some people do have genetic problems or even internal physical problems. First take a complete test from a highly qualified doctor not the cracks. If there is no problem you should then take the Vritam to please the SIVA. Take monday fast as vritam and pray to siva right from the bottom of your heart. He will come to your aid. Do not worry.
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