we had accident twice in 6 months and my father in law expired before 2 months and lot of hurdles, no success in any work and i am trying to search for job even it is not working, my husband he dont belive in any black magic or any of these things, and we had baby boy last year and from then every time fight at house or some or the other problems will be there at home.
If your husband has a rational, scientific point of view, then probably the only way you can solve your marital problems is by going to a trained therapist. Once you have the support of each other, the other things (problem with job, etc) will be easier to face and you will have more confidence. Also, then you won't annoy him when you do want to do poojas or other things he doesn't believe in!
I also don't believe you have any control over the bad things that have happened to you, but I think you can control your response to them. Even people who pray regularly and do everything right meet with accidents. However since you are going through a rough patch I would like to give you some personalized recommendations. Please post your complete birth details (place, time, date of birth) in the astrology section, along with your husband's if possible, and many of us will give you remedial measures and suggestions for ways to improve your outlook.
Be strong and even if you are having trouble getting along with your husband try to be civil with each other and treat each other as co-parents with an important responsibility-- for now your differences are petty compared to the great job you have taken raising a son.
firstly dont blame the baby for bringin problems in you life. maybe there are some problems at home. I thk u feel tht noone understands u and ur feelings r being hurt. I understand how it feels. thus i suggest u to worship Lord Shiva & Lord Hanuman. If possible and can afford then get Ekadasa Rudrabhishekam & Chandi Homam done for all round progress & prosperity. Otherwise you can get Nav Graho Ki Puja & Sundrakand done at you place whenever u feel. it will make u feel calm & stress free and will help you in gettin relief from all the problems. For career related problem it is suggested tht if possible get ur horoscope checked by an erudite astrologer & start worshiping lord ganesh for career & Parvati Maa for marital problems.
Thus, u should worship Shiv Parivar & Lord Hanuman.
hai dont worry. every body has to face their karma. be positive. where are you living, in india/ abroad? any way i will tell u one siple solution for all ur miseries.. which i have experienced. first of all u need trust, okay do u know how toput kalasam? okay i will tell u1 1. Put some rice in plate and put one kalash over that , 2.put some water, flowers, haldi, kumkum,and some coins in the water, 3. Now take one coconut and cover the mouth of the kalash , so that the tail of coconut should cme up, 4, if you get mango leaves/ beetel leaves. u put the leaves over kalsh and then put coconut 5. decorate the kalash with bangles, clothe, sindhur, haldi, This means you are inivting sri ammavaru, inside the kalasham, the supreme sakthi. ok now clean the floor , mopp inng and all, if u know how to put rangoli you can put, and keep some patri/ or plate and then place your kalash over that, the place should be clean and tidy, preferably in your pooja room. ok Now what you do is imagine your favourite lord coming inside , the kalash give haarathi, dhoop , diya and all. chant any slokas you know.. ok finally chant this mantram for 108 times daily for 21 days. after 21 days , remove the kalsham, eat that coconut and rice, make some sweet and uu all guys eat. OM SACHIDANANDA PARABRAHMA PURUSHOTHHAMA PARAMATHMA SRI BHAGHAWATHI SAMETHA SRI BHAGHWATHE NAMAH. this tis the mantra to be chanted daily 10 times. i dont know which language you belong to , u can talk to me by phone, i can guide you more clearly about this, i am staying in 9india. This is my mail id ********@*****.***, okay dont worry, bhaghawan will solve every thing soon once you do this. all the best , and be optimistic. bye cheers, sowjanya
Veda, Upanishads & great puranas unanimously declares thus: "aapadi kim karaneeyam? Smaraneeyam charanaugalamambaayam!" At the times of danger and perlis one and only solution is to submit on the lotus feets of Devi-Parashakthi-Jagadambika-The Omipotent Universal Mother.
Firstly, have utmost devotion and trust on divine Mother and believe strongly that Her almighty will surely save you.Faith can work miracles.
If you do not get time and concentration even for this twenty minutes a day, then Please do mentally chant " Ohm Hreem Namah Shivaaya"[Shakthi Panchaakshari]- this is a powerful mantra to give you strength and will remove all obstacles. But whenever you get time enough, do chant Lalitha Sashasra namam.
When you do this Wholeheartedly and with complete faith on Amma for atleast 21 days, [Best if you do it continuously for 41 days], all problems will be smoothly solved. The result is guaranteed!!
Then Astrologers in ammas.com can give you the required advice.
You can Pray to Sri Venkateswara Swami everyday.
Please chant the following Sloka and give Karpoora (Camphor) Aarathi to Sri Venkateswara Swami morning and evening (between 6 PM -7 PM)
sriyah kantaya kalayana- nidhaye nidhaye'rthinam,
sri venkata nivasaya srinivasaya mangalam
(May all auspiciousness be unto Srinivasa, who is the Lord of Lakshmi; resides in the abode of auspiciousness; is a treasure trove of supplicants and dwells on the Venkatachala! )
You can also perform Sudharshana Homam.
Benefits of Sudharshana Homam :
This homam is performed for Sudharshana Chakram, the mighty weapon of Lord Vishnu. Hindu mythology is full of references regarding the relationship and synergy between the Chakram and Lord Vishnu. Infact Lord Narasimha, an incarnation of Lord Vishnu is believed to be the resident of the Chakram.
According to the epic Mahabharatha, the Chakram represents the wheel of time (Kala Chakram), denoting the temporal aspect of the Chakram. The Vishnu Sahasranamam salutation "Ritu Sudarshana Kala Iti Digbandha:" also refers to the spatio-temporal aspects of the Chakram.
According to Sudharshana Astakam, the Chakram is also the eye of the universe, the three Vedas and the three sacrificial fires.
It is believed that the performance of the Sudarshana Homam bestows the following benefits to the seeker. Confers health, wealth and Prosperity
If the seeker desires material benefit, the Chakram grants all the riches
If the seeker desires spiritual benefit, he begets this upon performance of the Homam Helps in the removal of astrological flaws
Destroys all evil forces
Stops any problems or danger that might occur in future
Among the kathas that are prevalent in India, 'Shri Satyanarayan Vrat Katha' is the most popular.Satyanarayana vrat is the easiest and most inexpensive way of self-purification and self-surrender at the lotus feet of Hari.
One who observes it with full devotion and faith is sure to attain his heart's desire. Our shastras state that during the 'Kalyug,' the fruit that one gets by hearing the 'Satyanarayan Katha' is enormous.
The katha is dedicated to Lord Vishnu in his manifestation as Lord Satyanarayan. 'Satya' means truth, 'Nar' means a man and 'Ayan' means a place. Thus the place where truth resides in man is called Satyanarayan.
The 'Satyanarayan katha' and the 'vrat' help us overcome vices like lust, anger, greed, attachments and ego.
Please see this link for items required for Sri Satyanarayana Puja
DEAR SISTER, NO MATTER HOW DARK THE NIGHT BECOMES-DAYLIGHT ULTIMATELY TAKES IT OVER- ELIMINATES THE DARKNESS. at present all things are going wrong for you.but still you can rest assured that you do not have to take help of any sort of black magic to tide over this gloomy-painful period of your life. the first step you have to take is ;-while you are taking a bath in privacy ,take some watter in your right hand and remembering the Diety you worship-surrender your self to Him/Her;stating that what ever is His/Her wish will prevail and that they have to take care of you and your family in totality.Now it shall become the lords responsiblity to look after you and make sure that peace and prosperity prevails in you life. what you have written shows the hand of lord shani/shani drishti on you or your family members.HERE YOU MUST ON EVERY SATURDAY RECITE HANUMAN CHALESA IN THE HANMAN TEMPLE IN THE EVENING.;because when lord Hanman saved lord Shani in lanka from Ravan's jail ,shani dev granted him a boon that all worshipers of lord Hanuman will be spared from the evil aspect of shanidevs drishti. remember God and do your duty every thing will start becoming better ,may God bless you and take care of you with utmost love and affection.
Sorry to hear about your problems.There is NO one on earth without any problems. After having kids fights are normal since you spend more time with your baby than with yoour husband . Imagine folks who have two kids. What about if women are working and have 2 kids. I don't want to say much since I can not imagine your issues.Here are the few things I want to suggest. 1. Go to Bed early and raise early . 2. Try to spend more time outside the house than inside. 3.Pray to Ganesha with faith and Hanuman on Saturdays. I would NOT recommend any thing other than having faith in God.
4. There are folks having worse time than you so don't feel that you are the only person who have hard times.
5. Trying for Job? If your are in India go through Brokers. If you are in US try to go through contractors.
Remember never leave faith in God even in your worst times since it has nothing to do with him , he is just a watcher. It's all your actions and reactions that have effect on your life.It's his APARA KARUNA that he comes to rescue for his devotes. You have to pray for that . Prayer is very powerful .
Passign away fo your father in law will have effect on your husband , but can not last long since nothing is permanent on earth. All that comes has to go one day.
First of all, you should be very calm and keep patience a lot and don't react to anybody for any type of quarrel or mishappening otherwise you will loose more. Then you should verify the horoscope of your baby son and yourself and husband with a good repute astrologer. Listen the result from astrologer and then review the situation very carefully then you should try only those things which are in your control for solution of the problem as narrated by you. The solution of your problem must be accepted in such way that your problem should not increase further also by knowing your problem, you should remember that other person is not taking benefit for the same. In my opinion, you should try to be cool and try to make the things easier on every moment. Keep remember that things not to be complicated from your side in any part of time. Don't fear and think as you said in your problem. Also you try to awake early in the morning and do your daily activity and then you should make worship of your lovest god very honestly and concentratively at least one or half hour daily morning and evening. Also you do some pranayam before worship like Kapalbhati and Anulom vilom and Bhramari pranayam at least five minutes each in empty stomach both morning and evening. All these things will give you boost in solving your problem.
Black Magic or evil eye can be used to harm or hurt another person by performing certain acts even at a far away place - the effect of this technique can be experienced thousands of miles away. With increase of jealousy, frustration, greed, selfishness, negativity and inability to accept other's happiness & growth, the use of Black magic has become the most common way to take out one's vindictiveness and get an evil kind of satisfaction from the turmoil of others. This problem has intensified a lot in the last few years, and many are suffering all over the world, totally unaware of the attacks made by no other than their closest friends, acquaintances and relatives. Many prosperous and happy families are ruined by Black magic.Black Magic can really play havoc with the life of the target person by destroying any aspect of life may it be career/business or wealth/prosperity, creating family problems or unnecessary tensions/phobias, adversely affecting children & family, creating chronic health problems, destroying mental peace, intelligence & happiness, cause inner turmoil, unrest & uncharacteristic/abnormal behavior and even cause unnatural deaths in extreme circumstances.The effects of Black Magic become more chronic, dangerous and fatal with time, if untreated, like a horrible disease. It starts spreading like a contagious disease, affecting the person's mind, brain, body, relationships, attitudes, work, money, marriage, career and everything in life. Breaking or Reversing Black Magic Spell Putting a Black Magic Spell on someone is very easy for those knowing even a little bit of Tantrik siddhis/ voodoo. But to remove the spell and eliminate it's sinister effects needs lot of expertise, continuous & rigorous puja/worship and a combination Siddhis & Sadhna.At present to overcome the effects of black magic reading Shree Sukhtam Stotram & Kanakdhara Stotram will be helpful.
Jupiter is very auspicious planet and pooja in honour of Jupiter enhances wisdom, knowledge, religion, fortune, happiness, welfare, joy, devotion.so do pooja to jupiter.
and do Rudra Abhishekh. Rudra is the name of Lord Shiva. He is the supreme power and the destroyer of evil. The many names of Shiva describe His physical aspects and His powers. Thus 'Tri Netra' (three eyed), Neela kantha' (blue necked), Nataraja, Ardhanareeswara(both man and woman), etc.are the descriptions of Lord Shiva He is gentle as well as fierce, the greatest of renouncers as well as the ideal lover. He always protects his devotees from mishaps. He is simple, merciful and compassionate
consult a priest and do Vastu Shanti to u'r house. Vastu is a part of Sthapatya Veda (vedic architecture). According to the Vaastu shastra, energy imbalances in the home are the cause of obstacles in one's progress. Sometimes there are faults in construction to add to any innate problems with the present energy of the environment. This Yagya is highly recommended when moving into a new home.It removes all evil and negativity of the home, improves the health of the residents, increase creativity & inner intelligence, increase the longivity of life, growth in spiritual & material life, increase harmony & stability in family.
Sorry I could not get your name properly. First of all Please if you have a astrologer (family) show your horoscopes and find the position of grahas and if there is any negative aspect please do the remedy(?Pariharam)for it.
Faith in God and prayers to god can alone save us from all difficulties .
You can have a sudarshana yantra with you always to protect from accidents and other unsure happenings .Also take a Garuda Raksha from temple and tie it to the child for the well being of the child .
whether you get those or not tell these slokams with devotion all your fears and bad happenings will be removed: Thrayambakam Yajamahe Sugandhim Pushti Vardhanam Oorvarukamiva Bandhanaath Mruthyoor Mukshiyam Amruthath
We can chant this one when our loved ones are going out, it will give protection for them.
Sudars(h)ana mahaavishno paahimaam s(h)aranaagatham Chakra raaja bhajaamithvaam aayuraarogya siddhayae Krishna krishna mahaayogin bhakthaanaam abhayamkara Govinda paramaanando sarvammae vas(h)amaanaya Om namo bhagavathae mahaa sudars(h)anaaya mahaachakra deepajvalinae deeparoopaaya oordhva jvalakaes(h)aaya brahma vishnu rudra roopinae pralayaagni sama chakraaya bheemajyothi roopinae maam raksha raksha maam sakutumbam raksha raksha mama s(h)athroon baadhakaamscha bhakshaya bhakshaya dhushta grahaan hana hana hum phat svaahaa
This is a rare sudharsana sloka which protects you from all miseries.
Your problems are no different from the problems of others. You need a lot of courage to withstand problems in life. You have had accidents, death , birth and misunderstanding in the family. Your husband and you must sit together and ensure your baby boy is not neglected in this turmoil.
You should calmly overcome your problems. To help you overcome you should pray to Lord Vinayaga and Hanumanji. Both of them are capable of clearing your difficulties. Vinayga will clear all your sankat. Hanumanji will help you overcome your problems. Visit a temple every saturday and offer a garland of paan to Hanumanji.Read the Hanuman Chalisa everyday. Your sankat will vanish.
For family problems, please recite the Lalita Sahasranamam everyday. It brings peace within the family.
For your other problems, pray to Lord Ganesha (chant the Ganesha Gayatri everyday) and to Lord Shiva. To Lord Shiva, chant the Maha Mrityunjaya Mantra every day at least 108 times and chant the Shiva Gayatri at least 8 times.
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Gauri Shankar Rudraksha represents Lord Shiv and Goddess Parvati. This Rudraksha maintains family unity and relation between husband and wife. It is an excellent Rudraksha to maintain relationships. It also helps in meditation.This powerful bead is worn by sages to unite with the Lord through meditation. Symbol of : Lord Shiv and Goddess Parvati. Ruling Planet : Moon Recommended for : Peace and comfort in the family. Mantras : Om Gaurishankarey Namah
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When negative things happen in a house, it's good to perform GrihaPravesh periodically to bless the home and the members. Also, on a monthly basis, you can do Satyanarayan pooja on full moon for family's well being. Just remember to do the poojas with full faith in God to take care of everything in your family's life.
Dear sh2004, please pray Lord Narasimha(if you are a Hindu) by chanting SRI MANTHRA RAAJAPATHA STHOTHRAM (available in net or else write to me I will send in english/Tamil) OR If you are a Christian or Muslim, Pray your God's Nama repeatedly by sitting in a calm place for atleast halfanhour daily. (********@*****.***)p.ramachandran,chennai
Durga puja brings the peace, prosperity and happiness in your family, at your Home and of course in your life. It also brings the Abundance and Peace in all forms in the entire family of a person - at Home, out side, at Work place...
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